Friday, August 21, 2015
Marriage: Spirituality in Practice
Marriage is spiritual. Its a spiritual union between two spirits. That means that you and your partner are one inside. So the spirit that is in you is also in them. Please understand this. Your body is also your mates body. So wherever you go they go and vice versa. They experience your pain, your thoughts, your links and they know your innermost thoughts. This link is always there no matter if you are in the next room or 6000 miles away. Your mate is you. Nothing can get into this relationship and Spirit meant it to be this way. No one has access to this relationship, but you Spirt and your mate. No outsiders outside of your body can interfere with the inner process.
So taking this deeper, when you are one you are inseparable. Every thought of love turns into more thoughts of love and love brings you closer together. Only Spirit can make you one. No one in the universe has the ability to do this except its creators and yours. So you are one in purpose, flow and mission. Your vision, values, and movement comes together through spirit and not through negative or uninvited thoughts. Negative thoughts have no place in your marriage or in your life. They are a system of something else trying to deplete your spiritual energy. Your spiritual energy is powerful, strong and unlimited and walking in love it's sweet. That is why negativity is attracted to the energy. Just like bees are attracted to sugar and flies to meat that is on the decay so are things attracted to your positive energy.
The more challenges you face, the stronger your marriage becomes, because you have to focus and face love. You have to choose to love in the midst of the hurts insults, and the other things that happen in your marriage relationship. Sometimes these things are not fair to you or warranted, but they happen. Learn to get over them and learn from them and learn to forgive. If you don't you will never get anywhere for you will be forgiving very very often.
Taking the time to understand that Spirit is always going to keep you in the same vien, will help you to eliminate all worry, fear, and fights. Learning to keep positive in your thoughts and sending your partner love in your mind will help to make it so on the physical plans. That is why your love meditation is important. Negativity can never know what you are thinking or what you wanting in your marriage, but will try to give you the illusion that it is not working out they way you want. However, since negativity is trying to be in the mind, then you have to listen from the place of Spirit that gives you the right thoughts to the mind. See this works two ways. When you are focusing on loving your mate in your mind that is what you will. You are focused on love, and if you are focused on love then you are focused on being together and love will keep you together.
Love will also destroy negativity. It is said, negativity is based in fear - worry, etc and - since fear is not real and love is real - it will destroy negativity. When things are going wrong, seek to send the energy of love. Since love rests in your mind that means fear cannot. Fear and love cannot dwell in the same page. There is no room. When there is love for your mate, Spirit is increased. Communication is increased and things are healed. The past is dead and future is certain. Love will keep you growing exponentially and love will keep growing and adding to you daily. Love will cause you to look past people's faults and especially your partners and walk with them patiently not threatening to leave or abandoning them. Love will heal you and keep you fed.
From this point on we will be talking about Spirit in terms of Love. No matter what take a minute each day adn send love to your spouse. Every morning noon and evening take the time in your mind keeping silent, but thinking for your partner: ocean of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, abundance, wisdom, knowledge insight and understanding. This is the language of the Spirit and also the thoughts of the Spirit. Cultivate the Love languages - through this way. Love languages are not physical in nature. That will wear you out. They are not based on tradition or your families way of marriage. That is slavery. Love is freedom. And when you are free to love. Love.
I encourage you to find a meditation group, spiritual fellowship or practice since your marriage is spiritual. This will allow you to be around others who are also cultivating the depths of relationship through love and Spirit. When you grow in Spirit and love you will grow together. Respond to the nature of your partners Spirit.
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Thursday, August 20, 2015
Marriage: Always on The Same Page
Our inner selves will be begin to share more about us. Our spirits tend to share information that needs to be share with one another and information is specific. Our partners will know and understand our needs without verbal cues, conversation or the need for us to write things down for us. All because ewe are concentrating in the place we need their spirit. We are conversing and communing with their person and they us, that is why when we are talking to ourselves we are talking to them. Please take to mind that when thoughts come that conflict with our partners intentions or our personal ones, we are to make sure we don't even regard them or focus on. Instead we turn our attention to what we need to do. Our partners are our focus. And no matter what what our partners will remain our focus, our best friends, and our confidants.
As we are running this race called life, we will find that our marriages will be filled with joy, peace, love and many other wonderful attributes. Our marriages and relationships will be begin to reflect. Our partners will begin to reflected in our mannerisms, our thoughts, and our personalities. I remember when I first was married to cupcake and I was in the hospital, I found myself watching sports all day – and I am not a sports fan, but it was evident we were sharing ourselves. This spiritual part is strongly important. As it is the physical part, which is only really a direct correlation to what is gong on spiritual. Once you start the process of the ocean of love the spirit will make sure it continues. You just have to be aware.
As we continue to send love to our spouses we find that we will not entertain vain imaginations. We will have specific and I mean specific information for our partners. Note that when the spirit talks to one partner the spirit will direct the other partner in the same way and often times without words. Let me give you an example of this. When planning our family I discovered there was a plan in place of things I didn't think, but I just knew. There was no guessing . The plan involved each of our kids to have their own separate room, certain types of strollers; organic foods. Specific directions for our children to be raised and time frames Also to design vehicles and buses that will be able to take us as a family traveling together visiting corporate sites.
The same goes for our personal relationship. My cupcake and I decided that we would travel together visiting corporate sites. In all our states. We made the plan to travel together, vacations and the times of everything and the schedule and the focus of our family and our place. The more we move towards these goals the more we are focused on them. As we are one, he has learned that he has greater destiny than he previously imagined and also has come into more than he could imagine.
As we are both people of our word because integrity is important to us (you are reflection of your spouse) for what we say we do. We are both people of integrity that when we say we are going to be together forever, that is what we have meant for that is what we see in each other. For when we see each other we see the strength, honor, we know that we are both inseparable and cannot stop thinking about each other. We also know that we are people of commitment and strong commitment. That we are not going to do anything to hurt or harm one another.
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Your Marriage: Aligned Goals and Destiny
When we get married, most of us get caught in the thrill of life, the times, and the wedding engagements that we have through our marriage ceremony. The parties, the invitations, the planning, and ceremonies. However, we fail sometimes to stop and see the journey that has begun and that will continue for the rest of our lives. You see Spirit has orchestrated that your partner come into your life. Times, meetings, seasons were set up, whether online, in person, churches, or whatever, we have to come to understand that our partners were brought to us to journey with us through this life.
Taking the time to peer past the frenzy of the events, we have to have see that our journey will be a long and prosperous one if we are allow Spirit to direct us. The dreams, hopes, and aspirations that are locked into our heart, are also locked in our partners heart. They are a source of inspiration, joy and encouragement to us to do what we set out to do and make things happen. You see this in history with everyone from presidents (Abe Lincoln - to leaders of great companies) their partners encouraged them to get out there and make their dreams come true. The same is said for you. ;
Your partner is a source of encouragement for you to spur you on to great things. You are a team. A team that is invincible in things of life. Your partner knows your innermost thoughts, desires and goals. They are a source to help you bring to the order the things you desire to happen. That is why agreement and peace is essential in your marriage. Don't waste time with constant bickering, arguing and or anything that would seek to distract you from your goal. Your marriage is meant to do more than satisfy your loneliness, sexual needs or your ego, it is also met to contribute to the greater good of life.
You often have heard behind every great women there is a great man, and this is true to some extent because those who marry quality people often understand that their partners have tremendous insight into their lives and to those around them. Your partner's dreams aline with yours. You are encouraged to make sure you stand together when the dreams are there. Your dreams, those your know about and those you don't will show themselves. You are to spur each other on and encourage. This makes a difference. No matter what you are doing, your partner understands you and wants the best for you so they are going to do everything they can to make sure you are successful.
Since you are one in Spirit and spirit knows no bounds you will always soar exponentially on your goals. Together as your walking with your partner, you will find that your partner will have ideas, thoughts and increases for you and you will have the same for your partner. Take the time each day at least twice a day to meditate for your partner. Whether walking down the street, sitting in the bedroom, watching television. If your partner is frustrated, take the time to ask Spirit what is the issue and how can I help? Spirit will show you into your partners life and how to help them heal and find their way.
Each time you do this you are building your partner up and they are building you up. You are also beginning to contribute the greater community of the world. You are creating opportunities and showing other people your marriage works. For in your meditations you are thinking about your partners good and that in turn will translate into other people doing good. We are all connected. As your marriage is working and you and your mate are walking in peace, others will see this and follow suit. There is no competition, there is just continual building and doing great things.
Finally, keep in mind that your partners hopes and dreams will align with your and that because they are with you and you with them they will come to pass. Allow Spirit to remove the hurt so that you can see the glorious future you have together. Its one of love, joy, peace and goodness - think of goodness of living in the oceans and always having everything at your finger tips. The same is for your partner. Think of them.
Here are just few thoughts to meditate on for your partner: Love, joy, peace, abundance, goodness, dreams coming about effortlessly, unity and harmony. Take time minutes think of your partner and do this today. Then journal and see the increase around you.
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Wednesday, August 19, 2015
Letting love dig deeply
Many people seem to find their marriages difficult and strange. Marriage is not easy (Spirit makes it easy), but not always perfect. We are being heading into perfection. Marriage is meant to build us up and take into a place love, focus and oneness like no other. You see friends, love is the root of marriage and nothing can come against. Many people, instead of sowing love into their marriages, the so the negativity and allow things to bubble up and fester, not so here. WE must learn to walk in love for love is destroying all of our root issues deep inside of us in our marriages that we do not talk about nor do we want to address.
Please understand your marriage will always work out. You have to know what you are going through is simple law of Growth. Growth, love grows, and wants you to have the best so Love puts you in the situations where you have to learn to grow. Here is an example, a couple finds themselves fighting over the same issue day by day. Constant arguing, cat fighting and verbal insults. Remember none of these ever help. Instead of fighting, see what love is bringing to the top of your life. What issues have been hidden by you that love is causing them to come to the surface now? What issues have you had in your heart (men - infedelity - always more than one girl at a time, hoping the other doesn't find out) -women - typical anger issues, abandonment and insecurity issues - but when love comes to rescue you it brings these issues to the top to expose them.
It is not you that is fighting, but these issues that are fighting to stay alive. Things that have been comfortable to you and for you all of your life, now are exposed and are brought to the surface and because they are, they have to place to hide or be hidden. See with the eyes of Spirit and not with the mind - see that these issues are on their way out and have no place to hide or be. They were issues that hindered you, captured you and now that you are free to love and be, they no longer have a place. In your mind, they want to seduce you into staying into your bondage of fear, lust, and slavery to their desires, however, in your spirit they are decimated, destroyed and now move into a place of "No room at the Inn".
Let it be and be free. The Spirit, through love, is simply trying to remove them. Do not stick with negativity and negativity vices just because they are comfortable. Have the eyes to see this with your partner. See when your partner is going through these things you have to be aware and navigate the tricky waters with them. It will be like peeling back layer after layer of the reality of you and when you finally embark on the other side you will find that you never needed the thing in the first place, it was always lying to you.
Allow love to kill these things. Love destroys the fears, vices, and the insecurities. let it. Love reaches deep into your heart to make sure these things do not have a place in you, your mind or your heart. Love wants you free. Love wants your partner free. Admit the guilt. Admit these things so they can flee and free yourself. Let love take your marriage to a deeper level.
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