Friday, August 21, 2015

Marriage: Spirituality in Practice

Marriage is spiritual. Its a spiritual union between two spirits. That means that you and your partner are one inside. So the spirit that is in you is also in them. Please understand this. Your body is also your mates body. So wherever you go they go and vice versa. They experience your pain, your thoughts, your links and they know your innermost thoughts. This link is always there no matter if you are in the next room or 6000 miles away. Your mate is you. Nothing can get into this relationship and Spirit meant it to be this way. No one has access to this relationship, but you Spirt and your mate. No outsiders outside of your body can interfere with the inner process. So taking this deeper, when you are one you are inseparable. Every thought of love turns into more thoughts of love and love brings you closer together. Only Spirit can make you one. No one in the universe has the ability to do this except its creators and yours. So you are one in purpose, flow and mission. Your vision, values, and movement comes together through spirit and not through negative or uninvited thoughts. Negative thoughts have no place in your marriage or in your life. They are a system of something else trying to deplete your spiritual energy. Your spiritual energy is powerful, strong and unlimited and walking in love it's sweet. That is why negativity is attracted to the energy. Just like bees are attracted to sugar and flies to meat that is on the decay so are things attracted to your positive energy. The more challenges you face, the stronger your marriage becomes, because you have to focus and face love. You have to choose to love in the midst of the hurts insults, and the other things that happen in your marriage relationship. Sometimes these things are not fair to you or warranted, but they happen. Learn to get over them and learn from them and learn to forgive. If you don't you will never get anywhere for you will be forgiving very very often. Taking the time to understand that Spirit is always going to keep you in the same vien, will help you to eliminate all worry, fear, and fights. Learning to keep positive in your thoughts and sending your partner love in your mind will help to make it so on the physical plans. That is why your love meditation is important. Negativity can never know what you are thinking or what you wanting in your marriage, but will try to give you the illusion that it is not working out they way you want. However, since negativity is trying to be in the mind, then you have to listen from the place of Spirit that gives you the right thoughts to the mind. See this works two ways. When you are focusing on loving your mate in your mind that is what you will. You are focused on love, and if you are focused on love then you are focused on being together and love will keep you together. Love will also destroy negativity. It is said, negativity is based in fear - worry, etc and - since fear is not real and love is real - it will destroy negativity. When things are going wrong, seek to send the energy of love. Since love rests in your mind that means fear cannot. Fear and love cannot dwell in the same page. There is no room. When there is love for your mate, Spirit is increased. Communication is increased and things are healed. The past is dead and future is certain. Love will keep you growing exponentially and love will keep growing and adding to you daily. Love will cause you to look past people's faults and especially your partners and walk with them patiently not threatening to leave or abandoning them. Love will heal you and keep you fed. From this point on we will be talking about Spirit in terms of Love. No matter what take a minute each day adn send love to your spouse. Every morning noon and evening take the time in your mind keeping silent, but thinking for your partner: ocean of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self control, abundance, wisdom, knowledge insight and understanding. This is the language of the Spirit and also the thoughts of the Spirit. Cultivate the Love languages - through this way. Love languages are not physical in nature. That will wear you out. They are not based on tradition or your families way of marriage. That is slavery. Love is freedom. And when you are free to love. Love. I encourage you to find a meditation group, spiritual fellowship or practice since your marriage is spiritual. This will allow you to be around others who are also cultivating the depths of relationship through love and Spirit. When you grow in Spirit and love you will grow together. Respond to the nature of your partners Spirit. Blue Whales and Eagles Seminar online every Thursday @ 12pm - and 6p - email: BluewhalesandEagles@icloud.com for email and sign up. Thursday 12pm - Now there wedding is over - Now there is a marriage - August 27 - After the wedding - Now is the marriage. Buy Blue Whales and Eagles here: Support independent publishing: Buy this book on Lulu.

Thursday, August 20, 2015

Marriage: Always on The Same Page

Our inner selves will be begin to share more about us. Our spirits tend to share information that needs to be share with one another and information is specific. Our partners will know and understand our needs without verbal cues, conversation or the need for us to write things down for us. All because ewe are concentrating in the place we need their spirit. We are conversing and communing with their person and they us, that is why when we are talking to ourselves we are talking to them. Please take to mind that when thoughts come that conflict with our partners intentions or our personal ones, we are to make sure we don't even regard them or focus on. Instead we turn our attention to what we need to do. Our partners are our focus. And no matter what what our partners will remain our focus, our best friends, and our confidants. As we are running this race called life, we will find that our marriages will be filled with joy, peace, love and many other wonderful attributes. Our marriages and relationships will be begin to reflect. Our partners will begin to reflected in our mannerisms, our thoughts, and our personalities. I remember when I first was married to cupcake and I was in the hospital, I found myself watching sports all day – and I am not a sports fan, but it was evident we were sharing ourselves. This spiritual part is strongly important. As it is the physical part, which is only really a direct correlation to what is gong on spiritual. Once you start the process of the ocean of love the spirit will make sure it continues. You just have to be aware. As we continue to send love to our spouses we find that we will not entertain vain imaginations. We will have specific and I mean specific information for our partners. Note that when the spirit talks to one partner the spirit will direct the other partner in the same way and often times without words. Let me give you an example of this. When planning our family I discovered there was a plan in place of things I didn't think, but I just knew. There was no guessing . The plan involved each of our kids to have their own separate room, certain types of strollers; organic foods. Specific directions for our children to be raised and time frames Also to design vehicles and buses that will be able to take us as a family traveling together visiting corporate sites. The same goes for our personal relationship. My cupcake and I decided that we would travel together visiting corporate sites. In all our states. We made the plan to travel together, vacations and the times of everything and the schedule and the focus of our family and our place. The more we move towards these goals the more we are focused on them. As we are one, he has learned that he has greater destiny than he previously imagined and also has come into more than he could imagine. As we are both people of our word because integrity is important to us (you are reflection of your spouse) for what we say we do. We are both people of integrity that when we say we are going to be together forever, that is what we have meant for that is what we see in each other. For when we see each other we see the strength, honor, we know that we are both inseparable and cannot stop thinking about each other. We also know that we are people of commitment and strong commitment. That we are not going to do anything to hurt or harm one another. Blue Whales and Eagles Seminar online every Thursday @ 12pm - and 6p - email: BluewhalesandEagles@icloud.com for email and sign up.

Your Marriage: Aligned Goals and Destiny

When we get married, most of us get caught in the thrill of life, the times, and the wedding engagements that we have through our marriage ceremony. The parties, the invitations, the planning, and ceremonies. However, we fail sometimes to stop and see the journey that has begun and that will continue for the rest of our lives. You see Spirit has orchestrated that your partner come into your life. Times, meetings, seasons were set up, whether online, in person, churches, or whatever, we have to come to understand that our partners were brought to us to journey with us through this life. Taking the time to peer past the frenzy of the events, we have to have see that our journey will be a long and prosperous one if we are allow Spirit to direct us. The dreams, hopes, and aspirations that are locked into our heart, are also locked in our partners heart. They are a source of inspiration, joy and encouragement to us to do what we set out to do and make things happen. You see this in history with everyone from presidents (Abe Lincoln - to leaders of great companies) their partners encouraged them to get out there and make their dreams come true. The same is said for you. ; Your partner is a source of encouragement for you to spur you on to great things. You are a team. A team that is invincible in things of life. Your partner knows your innermost thoughts, desires and goals. They are a source to help you bring to the order the things you desire to happen. That is why agreement and peace is essential in your marriage. Don't waste time with constant bickering, arguing and or anything that would seek to distract you from your goal. Your marriage is meant to do more than satisfy your loneliness, sexual needs or your ego, it is also met to contribute to the greater good of life. You often have heard behind every great women there is a great man, and this is true to some extent because those who marry quality people often understand that their partners have tremendous insight into their lives and to those around them. Your partner's dreams aline with yours. You are encouraged to make sure you stand together when the dreams are there. Your dreams, those your know about and those you don't will show themselves. You are to spur each other on and encourage. This makes a difference. No matter what you are doing, your partner understands you and wants the best for you so they are going to do everything they can to make sure you are successful. Since you are one in Spirit and spirit knows no bounds you will always soar exponentially on your goals. Together as your walking with your partner, you will find that your partner will have ideas, thoughts and increases for you and you will have the same for your partner. Take the time each day at least twice a day to meditate for your partner. Whether walking down the street, sitting in the bedroom, watching television. If your partner is frustrated, take the time to ask Spirit what is the issue and how can I help? Spirit will show you into your partners life and how to help them heal and find their way. Each time you do this you are building your partner up and they are building you up. You are also beginning to contribute the greater community of the world. You are creating opportunities and showing other people your marriage works. For in your meditations you are thinking about your partners good and that in turn will translate into other people doing good. We are all connected. As your marriage is working and you and your mate are walking in peace, others will see this and follow suit. There is no competition, there is just continual building and doing great things. Finally, keep in mind that your partners hopes and dreams will align with your and that because they are with you and you with them they will come to pass. Allow Spirit to remove the hurt so that you can see the glorious future you have together. Its one of love, joy, peace and goodness - think of goodness of living in the oceans and always having everything at your finger tips. The same is for your partner. Think of them. Here are just few thoughts to meditate on for your partner: Love, joy, peace, abundance, goodness, dreams coming about effortlessly, unity and harmony. Take time minutes think of your partner and do this today. Then journal and see the increase around you. Blue Whales and Eagles Seminar online every Thursday @ 12pm - and 6p - email: BluewhalesandEagles@icloud.com for email and sign up.

Wednesday, August 19, 2015

Letting love dig deeply

Many people seem to find their marriages difficult and strange. Marriage is not easy (Spirit makes it easy), but not always perfect. We are being heading into perfection. Marriage is meant to build us up and take into a place love, focus and oneness like no other. You see friends, love is the root of marriage and nothing can come against. Many people, instead of sowing love into their marriages, the so the negativity and allow things to bubble up and fester, not so here. WE must learn to walk in love for love is destroying all of our root issues deep inside of us in our marriages that we do not talk about nor do we want to address. Please understand your marriage will always work out. You have to know what you are going through is simple law of Growth. Growth, love grows, and wants you to have the best so Love puts you in the situations where you have to learn to grow. Here is an example, a couple finds themselves fighting over the same issue day by day. Constant arguing, cat fighting and verbal insults. Remember none of these ever help. Instead of fighting, see what love is bringing to the top of your life. What issues have been hidden by you that love is causing them to come to the surface now? What issues have you had in your heart (men - infedelity - always more than one girl at a time, hoping the other doesn't find out) -women - typical anger issues, abandonment and insecurity issues - but when love comes to rescue you it brings these issues to the top to expose them. It is not you that is fighting, but these issues that are fighting to stay alive. Things that have been comfortable to you and for you all of your life, now are exposed and are brought to the surface and because they are, they have to place to hide or be hidden. See with the eyes of Spirit and not with the mind - see that these issues are on their way out and have no place to hide or be. They were issues that hindered you, captured you and now that you are free to love and be, they no longer have a place. In your mind, they want to seduce you into staying into your bondage of fear, lust, and slavery to their desires, however, in your spirit they are decimated, destroyed and now move into a place of "No room at the Inn". Let it be and be free. The Spirit, through love, is simply trying to remove them. Do not stick with negativity and negativity vices just because they are comfortable. Have the eyes to see this with your partner. See when your partner is going through these things you have to be aware and navigate the tricky waters with them. It will be like peeling back layer after layer of the reality of you and when you finally embark on the other side you will find that you never needed the thing in the first place, it was always lying to you. Allow love to kill these things. Love destroys the fears, vices, and the insecurities. let it. Love reaches deep into your heart to make sure these things do not have a place in you, your mind or your heart. Love wants you free. Love wants your partner free. Admit the guilt. Admit these things so they can flee and free yourself. Let love take your marriage to a deeper level. Blue Whales and Eagles Seminar online every Thursday @ 12pm - and 6p - email: BluewhalesandEagles@icloud.com for email and sign up. Buy Blue Whales and Eagles here: Support independent publishing: Buy this book on Lulu.

Wednesday, January 7, 2015

Our marriages are the most intimate thing we have on earth outside of our relationship to Spirit. Spirit will keep our relationships together and relay messages and bring us together. When things seemingly are falling a part. Our marriages are spiritual first. And then they become into the natural. So many times people are dealing with so many issues and don't take the time to come together to know and understand what is gong with them – and within them. So many people are dealing with seemingly endless marital issues that are meaningless. They find themselves in situations where they are often encouraged to commit acts against their partners, fellow man and against the source. Many people, especially men will often times find themselves feeling encouraged to have relationships outside of their marriages and having secret mistresses and to commit adultery thus causing a domino effect of hurt, disappointment, frustration, devisive thoughts and division within the very families that have created are sworn to protect. They (men and women) often times finding themselves in positions of seduction of someone outside of their marriages. A sudden interest in another person that somehow causes a sudden infatuation of another person only to learn later that person actually had no interest in them at all. And then they examine the mess they have made. They see the pain have caused pain, embarrassment, hurt and bitterness to the very ones they are in covenant with. Instead of being esteemed they find themselves shunned, talked about, and even rejected by everyone that they have poured their lives into all because they were unknownly but willingly tried to be influenced into breaking a covenant bond. They will find that jealousy will rear it's ugly head. Trying to cause division and bitterness will over take a partner thus causing all kinds of pain. This tends to happen. Marriages “seemingly” fall apart and seems to have problems ranging from financial to health problems. Remember we are spirit, when our partner becomes unforgiving, bitterness creeps up causing one or both partners pain frustration and all kinds of emotional hurt. This ought not to be. We don't need to throw away our most prized relationship for one moment of fleeting pleasure with someone who could care less about us. What you do to your partners you are doing to yourself. For you are one. Their DNA is your DNA; their thoughts your thoughts; (you are not responsible for negative thoughts coming about because they don't belong to you – when you are thinking love you are only thinking positive thoughts) Thoughts of love only produces thoughts of love – fear cannot dwell there for negativity is fear. And fear is a lie. Just like Jealousy is the illusion of relationship to another person. Be careful of this thought immediately dismiss it. Don't feed it or give into it. Far too easily we give up on our marriages. Many people want to understand what commitment is and don't realize what they want is to make sure their marriages work. Remember that our marriages will always work . Anything built on spirit will work and last forever. You have just to accept it and believe. If spirit is for us then there is nothing that can be against us. Things of the Spirit easy you just become aware. Remember marriages are spiritual and Spirit unifies, connects and will never bring you into a situation in which you are compromised against your family and especially your spouse. It doesn't matter what or who it is When you find yourself being influenced immediately and send love to your partner. And remember if you are always thinking of your spouse you will not be thinking of anyone else. If you are thinking of your partner all day, you mind is focused on them and not entertaining any other possibility. You see when you are sending love You are sending energy, you are sending more than just an emotion. Let me give you some knowledge and understanding of what you are sending when youa re sending love to your marriage partner and that love involves such more than meets the eye – protection, goodness, gentleness, kindness, comfort, etc.). . When you send love is like you are sending a gift basket of never ending goodies: Kindness, goodness, trust, gentleness, unity, depth, strength, self control, protection, strong community – see appendix for morning meditation to send your partners. So when you are sending this love you are strengthening your marriage and not only your marriage, you are strengthening yourself. You are sending strong energy, you are strengthening their health, beauty, the connection between you. You are bringing the peace to your marriages (remember spirit is author of peace and doesn't cause confusion– confusion is used to divide and conquer) and the oneness where there is no question of what is happening. We will no longer focus on what is wrong, but we are focusing on what is right with our partners and in our minds enhancing them. Their dedication, commitment, beauty, kindness, self control .communication, things that can only come from within and places where the evil cannot touch us. For take note, as we continue to grow and be one we are becoming giants within us. Giants leave two things in their wake fear – to those who need to be afraid (our enemies) and assistance – there is no battle that we are We are not to walk in fear and we re to get rid of our all our fears. Face them and realize that they are nothing. They are vapors empty energy with no power or influence. Its like a gnat on the sea of love – and ocean. They really doesn't matter. Let us understand that as we continue in our relationship of love, fear will never be present because we are putting into our partners spirit and aura positive things. We must make sure to continue to do this and help one another grow. As we are growing we are learning from one antoher. As you are learning so is your partner. They may not tell you, but you will find that you are growing and that you are experiencing growth in different situation, but the same growth. As you are growing you realize that you are are walking into maturity because love contains all wisdom, knowledge, insight and understanding. You will find you will know your partner and I mean know your partners thoughts and will not have to guess. Guessing causes confusion and we do not give voice to confusion, fear or antyhing negative. If we feel something is bothering us then we must address, but not dwell on it. We only dwell on the positive things and where we are going in life. This includes the vision for the family and your relationship personally. Where are you going? What are you planning to do. As you are thinking about this, understand that you only have to think about the right things – the vision for your family and your partner will come to the knowledge of it because our communication is not always by what we say because words can get in the way of what we really want to say. Our spirits move in such way to move into the next dimension and chapters of our lives by having us to just do it for spirit covers all dimensions thoughts. AS we are growing spiritually we will find that our partners are beginning to learn and not just from us, but about us. They will have a knowing about us, they will know how to get our attentions and since we are spirit that will always be with us. As spirit knows no bounds and Is not confined as the physical body, our partners are with us in ways we need to take further to our corporal psyche. For as we are sending out love to our partners the inner telephone and texting system stronger and stronger. We will be able to locate our partners no matter where they are. If our partners and our spouses were situated in a remote place in the world, like a homing beacon we will immediately be able to find them with out delay, conflict or confusion. We will know where they are and they will know where we are. Our inner selves will be begin to share more about us. Our spirits tend to share information that needs to be share with one another and information is specific. Our partners will know and understand our needs without verbal cues, conversation or the need for us to write things down for us. All because ewe are concentrating in the place we need their spirit. We are conversing and communing with their person and they us, that is why when we are talking to ourselves we are talking to them. Please take to mind that when thoughts come that conflict with our partners intentions or our personal ones, we are to make sure we don't even regard them or focus on. Instead we turn our attention to what we need to do. Our partners are our focus. And no matter what what our partners will remain our focus, our best friends, and our confidants.

Saturday, January 3, 2015

2015 Thoughts for Your Marriage.

Your marriage is the most important thing this side of the universe and as a people we have to remember to keep our marriage and our partners first. Some people keep their marriages first, but not their partners. They are often times raving about their marriages and often forgetting their partners (that person whom they are married to) in the interim. We must always remember and never forget we are one being - physically and spiritually. And that means one being so that when people see you they see your spouse We are one first Spiritually. That is the connection that is deeply Spiritual and cannot broken. We have often heard the song will be the circle be unbroken and that is what that means it cannot be broken. Have the eyes of your understanding open . We are spiritually connected the deeply and with our partners and in each situation we are destined to do great things together. So our approach to our marriages should first be Spiritual. Our partners are here to teach us, reach us, grow us and know us. They are here to give encouragement, wisdom, comfort, and understanding. We are here to live in peace and harmony with our partners and do awesome things together in this life that will have a tremendous impact upon the world and those around us. However, as we are approaching this year we should keep in mind that we are to keep growing and as we are continuing in our marriages we are to make sure we are loving each other. As we are loving each other we are growing each other. As we are growing each other we are deepening our understanding, strengthening our connection and understanding of each other. We are thinking the best for and each other and dreaming for each other to achieve great things. Our marriages are the strongest agreement in the universe that we have. Agreements of love, agreements of accomplishments and agreements of being together for the remainder of this life. We must understand that in this agreement is great power and great potential for good. As we are setting our goals of this year, let us keep in mind to first have our partners best interest at hands. Taking that into consideration, let us endeavor each day to send our partner positive thoughts, send mental and give hugs to them. Giving our partners support spiritually, mentally and emotionally (within our thoughts - emotionally because thoughts are energy in motions - e(nergy)motion. When we are thinking positive things- .ie, life, perfect health, accomplishments of dreams, and standing fast in our minds to promises and the dreams in our hearts and our spirits for ourselves, keeping the lines of communication open for discussion and thinking, we begin to have the right kind of focus for ourselves and our marriage. A visionless marriage is a marriage that has plenty of potential, power, but passionless. Watching Television all day while one partner works developing a beer gut in the process is a sign of a visionless person not to mention someone who is not looking to his family or looking out for the longevity of his family. This is a great insult to the spouse and kids. So we must remember to have the proper care for ourselves and be active both in mind especially in our thoughts. entertaining the right thoughts and taken the proper precautions to making sure we keep our minds there. This visionless and passionless marriage eventually makes it way into the bedroom and then into the courtroom. Stop it before it starts. Take the time to think about what you want to accomplish in and with your marriage this year. Be deliberate in your thinking. As you are deliberate in your thinking you will find the rest of you is deliberate in making things happen. Don 't just let thoughts happen. Don't fight negative thoughts, but instead focus on positive thoughts. Dream and visualize. Listen to the thoughts of your Spirit and what is going on for your spouse, family be deliberate in your thinking of positive things. positive things for your people think great things for yourself and do not be influenced by anything else in your marriage. Think positive thoughts for your mates staying consistent, confident, and completely loving.

2015 Thoughts for Your Marriage.

Your marriage is the most important thing this side of the universe and as a people we have to remember to keep our marriage and our partners first. Some people keep their marriages first, but not their partners. They are often times raving about their marriages and often forgetting their partners (that person whom they are married to) in the interim. We must always remember and never forget we are one being - physically and spiritually. And that means one being so that when people see you they see your spouse We are one first Spiritually. That is the connection that is deeply Spiritual and cannot broken. We have often heard the song will be the circle be unbroken and that is what that means it cannot be broken. Have the eyes of your understanding open . We are spiritually connected the deeply and with our partners and in each situation we are destined to do great things together. So our approach to our marriages should first be Spiritual. Our partners are here to teach us, reach us, grow us and know us. They are here to give encouragement, wisdom, comfort, and understanding. We are here to live in peace and harmony with our partners and do awesome things together in this life that will have a tremendous impact upon the world and those around us. However, as we are approaching this year we should keep in mind that we are to keep growing and as we are continuing in our marriages we are to make sure we are loving each other. As we are loving each other we are growing each other. As we are growing each other we are deepening our understanding, strengthening our connection and understanding of each other. We are thinking the best for and each other and dreaming for each other to achieve great things. Our marriages are the strongest agreement in the universe that we have. Agreements of love, agreements of accomplishments and agreements of being together for the remainder of this life. We must understand that in this agreement is great power and great potential for good. As we are setting our goals of this year, let us keep in mind to first have our partners best interest at hands. Taking that into consideration, let us endeavor each day to send our partner positive thoughts, send mental and give hugs to them. Giving our partners support spiritually, mentally and emotionally (within our thoughts - emotionally because thoughts are energy in motions - e(nergy)motion. When we are thinking positive things- .ie, life, perfect health, accomplishments of dreams, and standing fast in our minds to promises and the dreams in our hearts and our spirits for ourselves, keeping the lines of communication open for discussion and thinking, we begin to have the right kind of focus for ourselves and our marriage. A visionless marriage is a marriage that has plenty of potential, power, but passionless. Watching Television all day while one partner works developing a beer gut in the process is a sign of a visionless person not to mention someone who is not looking to his family or looking out for the longevity of his family. This is a great insult to the spouse and kids. So we must remember to have the proper care for ourselves and be active both in mind especially in our thoughts. entertaining the right thoughts and taken the proper precautions to making sure we keep our minds there. This visionless and passionless marriage eventually makes it way into the bedroom and then into the courtroom. Stop it before it starts. Take the time to think about what you want to accomplish in and with your marriage this year. Be deliberate in your thinking. As you are deliberate in your thinking you will find the rest of you is deliberate in making things happen. Don 't just let thoughts happen. Don't fight negative thoughts, but instead focus on positive thoughts. Dream and visualize. Listen to the thoughts of your Spirit and what is going on for your spouse, family be deliberate in your thinking of positive things. positive things for your people think great things for yourself and do not be influenced by anything else in your marriage. Think positive thoughts for your mates staying consistent, confident, and completely loving.