Our marriages are the most intimate thing we have on earth outside of our relationship to Spirit. Spirit will keep our relationships together and relay messages and bring us together. When things seemingly are falling a part. Our marriages are spiritual first. And then they become into the natural. So many times people are dealing with so many issues and don't take the time to come together to know and understand what is gong with them – and within them. So many people are dealing with seemingly endless marital issues that are meaningless. They find themselves in situations where they are often encouraged to commit acts against their partners, fellow man and against the source. Many people, especially men will often times find themselves feeling encouraged to have relationships outside of their marriages and having secret mistresses and to commit adultery thus causing a domino effect of hurt, disappointment, frustration, devisive thoughts and division within the very families that have created are sworn to protect. They (men and women) often times finding themselves in positions of seduction of someone outside of their marriages. A sudden interest in another person that somehow causes a sudden infatuation of another person only to learn later that person actually had no interest in them at all. And then they examine the mess they have made. They see the pain have caused pain, embarrassment, hurt and bitterness to the very ones they are in covenant with. Instead of being esteemed they find themselves shunned, talked about, and even rejected by everyone that they have poured their lives into all because they were unknownly but willingly tried to be influenced into breaking a covenant bond. They will find that jealousy will rear it's ugly head. Trying to cause division and bitterness will over take a partner thus causing all kinds of pain. This tends to happen. Marriages “seemingly” fall apart and seems to have problems ranging from financial to health problems. Remember we are spirit, when our partner becomes unforgiving, bitterness creeps up causing one or both partners pain frustration and all kinds of emotional hurt. This ought not to be. We don't need to throw away our most prized relationship for one moment of fleeting pleasure with someone who could care less about us. What you do to your partners you are doing to yourself. For you are one. Their DNA is your DNA; their thoughts your thoughts; (you are not responsible for negative thoughts coming about because they don't belong to you – when you are thinking love you are only thinking positive thoughts) Thoughts of love only produces thoughts of love – fear cannot dwell there for negativity is fear. And fear is a lie. Just like Jealousy is the illusion of relationship to another person. Be careful of this thought immediately dismiss it. Don't feed it or give into it. Far too easily we give up on our marriages. Many people want to understand what commitment is and don't realize what they want is to make sure their marriages work. Remember that our marriages will always work . Anything built on spirit will work and last forever. You have just to accept it and believe. If spirit is for us then there is nothing that can be against us. Things of the Spirit easy you just become aware. Remember marriages are spiritual and Spirit unifies, connects and will never bring you into a situation in which you are compromised against your family and especially your spouse. It doesn't matter what or who it is When you find yourself being influenced immediately and send love to your partner. And remember if you are always thinking of your spouse you will not be thinking of anyone else. If you are thinking of your partner all day, you mind is focused on them and not entertaining any other possibility. You see when you are sending love You are sending energy, you are sending more than just an emotion. Let me give you some knowledge and understanding of what you are sending when youa re sending love to your marriage partner and that love involves such more than meets the eye – protection, goodness, gentleness, kindness, comfort, etc.). . When you send love is like you are sending a gift basket of never ending goodies: Kindness, goodness, trust, gentleness, unity, depth, strength, self control, protection, strong community – see appendix for morning meditation to send your partners. So when you are sending this love you are strengthening your marriage and not only your marriage, you are strengthening yourself. You are sending strong energy, you are strengthening their health, beauty, the connection between you. You are bringing the peace to your marriages (remember spirit is author of peace and doesn't cause confusion– confusion is used to divide and conquer) and the oneness where there is no question of what is happening. We will no longer focus on what is wrong, but we are focusing on what is right with our partners and in our minds enhancing them. Their dedication, commitment, beauty, kindness, self control .communication, things that can only come from within and places where the evil cannot touch us. For take note, as we continue to grow and be one we are becoming giants within us. Giants leave two things in their wake fear – to those who need to be afraid (our enemies) and assistance – there is no battle that we are We are not to walk in fear and we re to get rid of our all our fears. Face them and realize that they are nothing. They are vapors empty energy with no power or influence. Its like a gnat on the sea of love – and ocean. They really doesn't matter. Let us understand that as we continue in our relationship of love, fear will never be present because we are putting into our partners spirit and aura positive things. We must make sure to continue to do this and help one another grow. As we are growing we are learning from one antoher. As you are learning so is your partner. They may not tell you, but you will find that you are growing and that you are experiencing growth in different situation, but the same growth. As you are growing you realize that you are are walking into maturity because love contains all wisdom, knowledge, insight and understanding. You will find you will know your partner and I mean know your partners thoughts and will not have to guess. Guessing causes confusion and we do not give voice to confusion, fear or antyhing negative. If we feel something is bothering us then we must address, but not dwell on it. We only dwell on the positive things and where we are going in life. This includes the vision for the family and your relationship personally. Where are you going? What are you planning to do. As you are thinking about this, understand that you only have to think about the right things – the vision for your family and your partner will come to the knowledge of it because our communication is not always by what we say because words can get in the way of what we really want to say. Our spirits move in such way to move into the next dimension and chapters of our lives by having us to just do it for spirit covers all dimensions thoughts. AS we are growing spiritually we will find that our partners are beginning to learn and not just from us, but about us. They will have a knowing about us, they will know how to get our attentions and since we are spirit that will always be with us. As spirit knows no bounds and Is not confined as the physical body, our partners are with us in ways we need to take further to our corporal psyche. For as we are sending out love to our partners the inner telephone and texting system stronger and stronger. We will be able to locate our partners no matter where they are. If our partners and our spouses were situated in a remote place in the world, like a homing beacon we will immediately be able to find them with out delay, conflict or confusion. We will know where they are and they will know where we are. Our inner selves will be begin to share more about us. Our spirits tend to share information that needs to be share with one another and information is specific. Our partners will know and understand our needs without verbal cues, conversation or the need for us to write things down for us. All because ewe are concentrating in the place we need their spirit. We are conversing and communing with their person and they us, that is why when we are talking to ourselves we are talking to them. Please take to mind that when thoughts come that conflict with our partners intentions or our personal ones, we are to make sure we don't even regard them or focus on. Instead we turn our attention to what we need to do. Our partners are our focus. And no matter what what our partners will remain our focus, our best friends, and our confidants.