Our marriages are the most intimate thing we have on earth outside of our relationship to Spirit. Spirit will keep our relationships together and relay messages and bring us together. When things seemingly are falling a part. Our marriages are spiritual first. And then they become into the natural. So many times people are dealing with so many issues and don't take the time to come together to know and understand what is gong with them – and within them. So many people are dealing with seemingly endless marital issues that are meaningless. They find themselves in situations where they are often encouraged to commit acts against their partners, fellow man and against the source. Many people, especially men will often times find themselves feeling encouraged to have relationships outside of their marriages and having secret mistresses and to commit adultery thus causing a domino effect of hurt, disappointment, frustration, devisive thoughts and division within the very families that have created are sworn to protect. They (men and women) often times finding themselves in positions of seduction of someone outside of their marriages. A sudden interest in another person that somehow causes a sudden infatuation of another person only to learn later that person actually had no interest in them at all. And then they examine the mess they have made. They see the pain have caused pain, embarrassment, hurt and bitterness to the very ones they are in covenant with. Instead of being esteemed they find themselves shunned, talked about, and even rejected by everyone that they have poured their lives into all because they were unknownly but willingly tried to be influenced into breaking a covenant bond. They will find that jealousy will rear it's ugly head. Trying to cause division and bitterness will over take a partner thus causing all kinds of pain. This tends to happen. Marriages “seemingly” fall apart and seems to have problems ranging from financial to health problems. Remember we are spirit, when our partner becomes unforgiving, bitterness creeps up causing one or both partners pain frustration and all kinds of emotional hurt. This ought not to be. We don't need to throw away our most prized relationship for one moment of fleeting pleasure with someone who could care less about us. What you do to your partners you are doing to yourself. For you are one. Their DNA is your DNA; their thoughts your thoughts; (you are not responsible for negative thoughts coming about because they don't belong to you – when you are thinking love you are only thinking positive thoughts) Thoughts of love only produces thoughts of love – fear cannot dwell there for negativity is fear. And fear is a lie. Just like Jealousy is the illusion of relationship to another person. Be careful of this thought immediately dismiss it. Don't feed it or give into it. Far too easily we give up on our marriages. Many people want to understand what commitment is and don't realize what they want is to make sure their marriages work. Remember that our marriages will always work . Anything built on spirit will work and last forever. You have just to accept it and believe. If spirit is for us then there is nothing that can be against us. Things of the Spirit easy you just become aware. Remember marriages are spiritual and Spirit unifies, connects and will never bring you into a situation in which you are compromised against your family and especially your spouse. It doesn't matter what or who it is When you find yourself being influenced immediately and send love to your partner. And remember if you are always thinking of your spouse you will not be thinking of anyone else. If you are thinking of your partner all day, you mind is focused on them and not entertaining any other possibility. You see when you are sending love You are sending energy, you are sending more than just an emotion. Let me give you some knowledge and understanding of what you are sending when youa re sending love to your marriage partner and that love involves such more than meets the eye – protection, goodness, gentleness, kindness, comfort, etc.). . When you send love is like you are sending a gift basket of never ending goodies: Kindness, goodness, trust, gentleness, unity, depth, strength, self control, protection, strong community – see appendix for morning meditation to send your partners. So when you are sending this love you are strengthening your marriage and not only your marriage, you are strengthening yourself. You are sending strong energy, you are strengthening their health, beauty, the connection between you. You are bringing the peace to your marriages (remember spirit is author of peace and doesn't cause confusion– confusion is used to divide and conquer) and the oneness where there is no question of what is happening. We will no longer focus on what is wrong, but we are focusing on what is right with our partners and in our minds enhancing them. Their dedication, commitment, beauty, kindness, self control .communication, things that can only come from within and places where the evil cannot touch us. For take note, as we continue to grow and be one we are becoming giants within us. Giants leave two things in their wake fear – to those who need to be afraid (our enemies) and assistance – there is no battle that we are We are not to walk in fear and we re to get rid of our all our fears. Face them and realize that they are nothing. They are vapors empty energy with no power or influence. Its like a gnat on the sea of love – and ocean. They really doesn't matter. Let us understand that as we continue in our relationship of love, fear will never be present because we are putting into our partners spirit and aura positive things. We must make sure to continue to do this and help one another grow. As we are growing we are learning from one antoher. As you are learning so is your partner. They may not tell you, but you will find that you are growing and that you are experiencing growth in different situation, but the same growth. As you are growing you realize that you are are walking into maturity because love contains all wisdom, knowledge, insight and understanding. You will find you will know your partner and I mean know your partners thoughts and will not have to guess. Guessing causes confusion and we do not give voice to confusion, fear or antyhing negative. If we feel something is bothering us then we must address, but not dwell on it. We only dwell on the positive things and where we are going in life. This includes the vision for the family and your relationship personally. Where are you going? What are you planning to do. As you are thinking about this, understand that you only have to think about the right things – the vision for your family and your partner will come to the knowledge of it because our communication is not always by what we say because words can get in the way of what we really want to say. Our spirits move in such way to move into the next dimension and chapters of our lives by having us to just do it for spirit covers all dimensions thoughts. AS we are growing spiritually we will find that our partners are beginning to learn and not just from us, but about us. They will have a knowing about us, they will know how to get our attentions and since we are spirit that will always be with us. As spirit knows no bounds and Is not confined as the physical body, our partners are with us in ways we need to take further to our corporal psyche. For as we are sending out love to our partners the inner telephone and texting system stronger and stronger. We will be able to locate our partners no matter where they are. If our partners and our spouses were situated in a remote place in the world, like a homing beacon we will immediately be able to find them with out delay, conflict or confusion. We will know where they are and they will know where we are. Our inner selves will be begin to share more about us. Our spirits tend to share information that needs to be share with one another and information is specific. Our partners will know and understand our needs without verbal cues, conversation or the need for us to write things down for us. All because ewe are concentrating in the place we need their spirit. We are conversing and communing with their person and they us, that is why when we are talking to ourselves we are talking to them. Please take to mind that when thoughts come that conflict with our partners intentions or our personal ones, we are to make sure we don't even regard them or focus on. Instead we turn our attention to what we need to do. Our partners are our focus. And no matter what what our partners will remain our focus, our best friends, and our confidants.

2015 Thoughts for Your Marriage.

Your marriage is the most important thing this side of the universe and as a people we have to remember to keep our marriage and our partners first. Some people keep their marriages first, but not their partners. They are often times raving about their marriages and often forgetting their partners (that person whom they are married to) in the interim. We must always remember and never forget we are one being - physically and spiritually. And that means one being so that when people see you they see your spouse We are one first Spiritually. That is the connection that is deeply Spiritual and cannot broken. We have often heard the song will be the circle be unbroken and that is what that means it cannot be broken. Have the eyes of your understanding open . We are spiritually connected the deeply and with our partners and in each situation we are destined to do great things together. So our approach to our marriages should first be Spiritual. Our partners are here to teach us, reach us, grow us and know us. They are here to give encouragement, wisdom, comfort, and understanding. We are here to live in peace and harmony with our partners and do awesome things together in this life that will have a tremendous impact upon the world and those around us. However, as we are approaching this year we should keep in mind that we are to keep growing and as we are continuing in our marriages we are to make sure we are loving each other. As we are loving each other we are growing each other. As we are growing each other we are deepening our understanding, strengthening our connection and understanding of each other. We are thinking the best for and each other and dreaming for each other to achieve great things. Our marriages are the strongest agreement in the universe that we have. Agreements of love, agreements of accomplishments and agreements of being together for the remainder of this life. We must understand that in this agreement is great power and great potential for good. As we are setting our goals of this year, let us keep in mind to first have our partners best interest at hands. Taking that into consideration, let us endeavor each day to send our partner positive thoughts, send mental and give hugs to them. Giving our partners support spiritually, mentally and emotionally (within our thoughts - emotionally because thoughts are energy in motions - e(nergy)motion. When we are thinking positive things- .ie, life, perfect health, accomplishments of dreams, and standing fast in our minds to promises and the dreams in our hearts and our spirits for ourselves, keeping the lines of communication open for discussion and thinking, we begin to have the right kind of focus for ourselves and our marriage. A visionless marriage is a marriage that has plenty of potential, power, but passionless. Watching Television all day while one partner works developing a beer gut in the process is a sign of a visionless person not to mention someone who is not looking to his family or looking out for the longevity of his family. This is a great insult to the spouse and kids. So we must remember to have the proper care for ourselves and be active both in mind especially in our thoughts. entertaining the right thoughts and taken the proper precautions to making sure we keep our minds there. This visionless and passionless marriage eventually makes it way into the bedroom and then into the courtroom. Stop it before it starts. Take the time to think about what you want to accomplish in and with your marriage this year. Be deliberate in your thinking. As you are deliberate in your thinking you will find the rest of you is deliberate in making things happen. Don 't just let thoughts happen. Don't fight negative thoughts, but instead focus on positive thoughts. Dream and visualize. Listen to the thoughts of your Spirit and what is going on for your spouse, family be deliberate in your thinking of positive things. positive things for your people think great things for yourself and do not be influenced by anything else in your marriage. Think positive thoughts for your mates staying consistent, confident, and completely loving.

2015 Thoughts for Your Marriage.

Your marriage is the most important thing this side of the universe and as a people we have to remember to keep our marriage and our partners first. Some people keep their marriages first, but not their partners. They are often times raving about their marriages and often forgetting their partners (that person whom they are married to) in the interim. We must always remember and never forget we are one being - physically and spiritually. And that means one being so that when people see you they see your spouse We are one first Spiritually. That is the connection that is deeply Spiritual and cannot broken. We have often heard the song will be the circle be unbroken and that is what that means it cannot be broken. Have the eyes of your understanding open . We are spiritually connected the deeply and with our partners and in each situation we are destined to do great things together. So our approach to our marriages should first be Spiritual. Our partners are here to teach us, reach us, grow us and know us. They are here to give encouragement, wisdom, comfort, and understanding. We are here to live in peace and harmony with our partners and do awesome things together in this life that will have a tremendous impact upon the world and those around us. However, as we are approaching this year we should keep in mind that we are to keep growing and as we are continuing in our marriages we are to make sure we are loving each other. As we are loving each other we are growing each other. As we are growing each other we are deepening our understanding, strengthening our connection and understanding of each other. We are thinking the best for and each other and dreaming for each other to achieve great things. Our marriages are the strongest agreement in the universe that we have. Agreements of love, agreements of accomplishments and agreements of being together for the remainder of this life. We must understand that in this agreement is great power and great potential for good. As we are setting our goals of this year, let us keep in mind to first have our partners best interest at hands. Taking that into consideration, let us endeavor each day to send our partner positive thoughts, send mental and give hugs to them. Giving our partners support spiritually, mentally and emotionally (within our thoughts - emotionally because thoughts are energy in motions - e(nergy)motion. When we are thinking positive things- .ie, life, perfect health, accomplishments of dreams, and standing fast in our minds to promises and the dreams in our hearts and our spirits for ourselves, keeping the lines of communication open for discussion and thinking, we begin to have the right kind of focus for ourselves and our marriage. A visionless marriage is a marriage that has plenty of potential, power, but passionless. Watching Television all day while one partner works developing a beer gut in the process is a sign of a visionless person not to mention someone who is not looking to his family or looking out for the longevity of his family. This is a great insult to the spouse and kids. So we must remember to have the proper care for ourselves and be active both in mind especially in our thoughts. entertaining the right thoughts and taken the proper precautions to making sure we keep our minds there. This visionless and passionless marriage eventually makes it way into the bedroom and then into the courtroom. Stop it before it starts. Take the time to think about what you want to accomplish in and with your marriage this year. Be deliberate in your thinking. As you are deliberate in your thinking you will find the rest of you is deliberate in making things happen. Don 't just let thoughts happen. Don't fight negative thoughts, but instead focus on positive thoughts. Dream and visualize. Listen to the thoughts of your Spirit and what is going on for your spouse, family be deliberate in your thinking of positive things. positive things for your people think great things for yourself and do not be influenced by anything else in your marriage. Think positive thoughts for your mates staying consistent, confident, and completely loving.